hello, I just thought id message you guys as im really stressed and upset about my new cat, there was an old lady who lived down our road and she had a young female cat and the old lady died and we took the cat in to keep but she is making my other two male cats uncomfortable and hisses every time they enter the room, she only stays in our front room and she doesn’t go anywhere else, well I picked her up to put her in a separate room and she freaked out and clawed me and I lost it with her and grabbed her by the scruff of the neck and shouted at the top of my voice “don’t you dare claw me” and some other words im not proud of and this is like the 3rd time ive done it but this time I was the most angry and I shouted so loud she actually pooped herself and when I saw the poo, my heart sank, I don’t want to make a poor little cat poo in fear from me, I love her to pieces and now im afraid she will hate me, I really need help, I want to have a loving relationship with her and my other two cats but I get so worked up with her but I know its not her fault, shes gone through a lot, what with having to lose a former owner and then move house and then live with two other cats and then shes got me shouting at her all the time, I feel like absolute crap, I was almost brought to tears after seeing her poo herself, I would never want an animal to be scared of me and I felt like the lowest piece of scum when I made her fear me…..